Relationship

Recently, there is some serious problem between my aunt and uncle. Apparently, there is a 3rd party involved. The 3rd party is staying at their house. They actually rented out a room to this woman. If I am not wrong my uncle actually committed adultery with her. This makes my aunt extremely upset. The worst thing is my uncle and aunt actually fighted and my aunt ended up injured twice. The worst injury was yesterday. She was bruised quite seriously and had to be sent to the hospital. Now she is under protection against my uncle.

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I actually saw my uncle at Suntec yesterday. He was squating down and eating chips. He looked totally in dazed. When he saw me, he was shocked. He told me he was waiting for someone. I wondered if he was waiting for that woman. Then he told me not to tell my aunt about it. I just can't believe that a couple that has been together for more than 20 years will end up this way. It is very scary indeed. I have heard many more horror stories about married couples - all ended up in tragedies. This makes me lose faith in marriage. I wonder why would couples who are so loving during courtship will end up in divorce after marriage. If its going to be this way, then why marry in the first place?

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I think it is really difficult to maintain a good marriage. A lot of people say that man changes after marriage. They will be a totally different person. ( It could be good or bad). Normally, a divorce is due to a 3rd party. And the person who wavered is usually the man. I just don't understand why guys are so easily tempted. Some men who wavered even blamed their wifes for not maintaining their attractiveness, not being understanding enough, too naggy, too boring etc. All the excuses!!! This just sound like guys are a bunch of idiots.

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When I was young, I used to picture a relationship like a fairytale. But now I realised that no such thing exist. My bf does treat me quite well but its nothing like what you see in a sweet romance movie or fairytale. This is reality. There are so many things that I hate in a guy. For instance:

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1) Petty

2) MCP

3) Stingy

4) Ungentlemanly

5) Disrespectful

and many more....

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Essentially, what I want to say is: all girls out there must really open their eyes wide enough to look out for the right one. And if they really found the right guy, they must cherish the person and maintain the relationship.